What is the softchat?
The softchat is a special chat variant on VXlive in which you interact with users who have not yet completed age verification. This does not mean that these people are minors – users under 18 are strictly prohibited on our platform.
Since access without age verification is restricted, special rules apply in the softchat to protect young people.
🔒 Important note on youth protection
Before a softchat user can chat with you, you as a model are informed clearly and unmistakably that this is a user who has not been age-verified.
The chat is announced before entry, and you must explicitly agree to the start.
👉 You always have full control and decide for yourself whether you accept this chat.
👉 This way we make sure that you always know exactly who you are dealing with – and what is allowed.
These security mechanisms are an integral part of our youth protection concept.
❗ Extremely important: the softchat rules also apply in the private chat
If a softchat user switches to the private chat, their status as not age-verified remains – and therefore exactly the same restrictions apply as in the softchat.
🔴 This clearly means:
👉 Even in a private chat with a softchat user, no 18+ content is allowed.
👉 The same rules continue to apply as before – regardless of the chat type.
👉 You may not show any sexual acts – not even at the user’s request.
A violation of this rule is considered a violation of youth protection and can lead to an immediate suspension.
✅ What is allowed in the softchat (and with softchat users)?
- Flirting, dancing, sensual movements
- Building erotic tension – with charisma, body language and music
- Dirty talk and explicit language
- Talking about toys is allowed
❌ What is not allowed – neither in the softchat nor in a private chat with softchat users:
- Using toys – not even partially
- Sexual acts of any kind (e.g. masturbation, oral gestures etc.)
- Showing body openings (intimate area, anus etc.)
💡 Tip: Use the softchat to arouse interest with style and tension. Show personality and presence – without crossing any lines. Many users later decide to verify their age after a softchat if they are convinced.
How can I activate the softchat?
- Start your VXlive software.
- Put your profile online.
- In the following window, you will find the option at the top right to activate SoftChat (16+) or to switch to HardcoreChat (18+).
- Choose the desired mode – as soon as you select “SoftChat”, your account is unlocked accordingly.